Tuesday, 16 November 2010

I've had a little cry



Some days you just have to stand still and wonder what might have been, in 1988 we lost a beautifull baby girl called Charlotte she was 6 weeeks old, her twin sister is now 21, 2 years later we lost a son Noel he died at birth and today would have been his 20th Birthday, I often wonder what they would have been like.

Amidst all this and against all the odds another son was born, we cherish every day with our children and love them to bits but today is for Noel Happy Birthday my darling.

Thank You for letting me share this with you all

Cate x

18 comments:

Hesta Nesta said...

Your post made me shed a tear too...I am so sorry for your loss, how do you cope with losing not one child but two? I remember when I had my son 16 years ago my friend lost a baby quite late on in her pregnancy...I remember breaking down with her on the phone. It must be so hard I cannot begin to imagine. My thoughts and love are with you and your family.
Jo xx

Vintage Tea Time said...

A poignant post. Thinking of you, and all your family. Take care, Abby

bekimarie said...

Shedding a tear for you lovely!
I've lost 2 beautiful babies through still birth and like you often wonder what they would of been like.
you are very much in my thoughts!

Much love
Beki xxx

CraftyHelen said...

I cannot begin to imagine the scale of your grief for your dear children. Thinking of you. Hugs, xx

delia hornbook said...

O Cate, I am so sorry for your loss i have a huge lump in my throat. I can only imagin the grief you must have felt and still do feel. Life is cruel and there are no reasons why. My thoughts and love are with you. Hugs xx

sylviesgarden said...

I wish I could give you a big, squishy hug, a virtual one is just not the same. Thinking of you.
Much love x

Tabbyroo said...

So sad, can't imagine how you get through that, though you obviously never forget. Thoughts with you Linda xx

Toby Tea Cozy said...

So hard to know what to say, except love to you and your family Cate x

The Patchwork Heart said...

Ahhhhhhhhhhh big Hugs
Heather x

A Treasured Past said...

Oh, this post made my heart ache, so sorry for your loss. I Thinking of you and your precious family, take care, Tamara x

Thecraftytrundler said...

Thinking of you, and big hugs ((( ))

Sharon xx

Annie xx TheFeltFairy said...

Sending you heartfelt wishes as on this sad day! I know the pain of losing a child and really do feel for you today! sending love to you and yours Annie x

Tilly Rose said...

I suffered several miscarriages including losing twins quite far on into my pregnancy...
My heart is with you hunny...
I know what you mean about wondering???
((hugs))
Karen x x x

WoodbankCrafts said...

Thinking of you hunny :) x

Susy said...

Hello dear,
I read your post and I felt bad for you.
Come on, it takes a lot of strength!
I'm near a big hug Susy

Jille said...

I'm never very good with words at times like this, but I felt it important to say that i am thinking of you and sending my love.
Jille x

Bayside Rose said...

Thanks for sharing this with us Cate. I am so sorry for your losses. My thoughts are with you and I am giving you plenty of hugs.

Pam x

Sue at Dollytub Cottage said...

Oh, how very sad. I'm thinking of you. SueXX